A 14-year-old and her 11-year-old sister describe what they’ve lived through growing up in a house cluttered with things, including piles of laundry, dirty dishes covering countertops, and ants roaming the kitchen. “My parents argue about the groceries, the bills, and the condition of the house,” says the 14-year-old. “When I hear them argue, it makes me really upset.” TELL DR. PHIL YOUR STORY: Have family drama that needs Dr. Phil’s help? Her younger sister adds, “My parents are always yelling at each other in front of my sister and me … When my dad and sister argue, they’ll end up hitting each other.”